My Intro

My Introduction

For anyone who doesn't know I am a retired eight, yes eight, time surrogate. Most of my surrogacy's where really great. Naturally there are a lot emotions involved and yes, there were sad times. With those sad times there were really beautiful joyous times. Moments that I will forever cherish. Pictures I will look back on feeling accomplished. I have left my mark on the world.

I have two kids of my own. A husband for 21 years, three dogs, two guinea pigs and a tortoise. I'm not some wild and crazy person. My idea of a fun night is a good book and a cupcake (or three but who's counting.) Really thrilling isn't it? Almost completed college degree, a vocational degree and previous business owner.

I was 41 when I retired from being a surrogate. I emotionally can't rehash each surrogacy. Obviously I will talk about each one as the subject comes up. Partially why I started this blog. I'm in various states of contact with each of my surrogacy's, all done in the USA. Some live close and some live on opposite coast lines. Some I see on social media, some I don't. Some I only text or email once or twice a year and some I go and visit while staying in their home. I get a lot of beautiful pictures, tons of beautiful smiling faces I helped bring into this world. Seeing my surrogacy's always makes me feel better, knowing that the world is a better place making good people parents being able to raise their kids.

This also comes with a measure of sadness and if anyone tells you differently then they're liars. And those are fightin' words in my book. Most people don't talk about the feelings of after a surrogacy is completed and what the surrogate goes through. This isn't to make anyone feel sad, maybe to gain a greater understanding.


Life lately has been one giant roller coaster. You'd think you've done enough good in the world to have some good karma built up. Maybe I have and this is life's version of going easy on me maybe? LOL, gosh...that's a scary thought.

Dear Life, Fuck you.

Okay, onto to other things.